Lawn Chairs and Friendships

“Get your chair. Meet us out front. Bring your water. It’s hot out there.” These comments can be heard in our neighborhood several times a week. After work, several folks gather their lawn chairs and drinks, and go to the front yard of the hosting neighbor. Friendships are deepened and new ones created. The love of God is shared through conversation and fellowship.

The words shared during these gatherings might include concerns about health, work, finances, or other stressful topics. Also, funny stories, parenting and/or grandparenting tips most always bring smiles and laughter. One method of teaching the kids might work for a few people, while another method is the answer for others. Either way, life lessons are exchanged and there’s a chance to learn something new. The chats that help everyone relax and refresh are usually ones about children and/or grandchildren. Laughter is a great way to bond.

My husband and I have lived in different states and towns over our 45 years of marriage. Neighbors in each place have unique gifts and qualities. One neighborhood in Virginia greeted us with a house-warming get together at a neighbor’s home. Gifts to help us get settled, delicious food, recommendations for physicians and other vital information was shared.
Another place showed God’s love by including us in regularly scheduled activities like book clubs, game nights, and picnics.

When we learn that someone has moved into the neighborhood, my husband and I try to connect with them. We offer our phone number and email. Some folks know the area and others have moved here from a different state.

Inviting people to bring their lawn chairs to a yard and have a chat can help promote friendliness and connections. The more time we share with each other, the more we learn about the backgrounds, interests, and hopes for the future of every person.

I’m thankful God gives us ways to be together. Developing relationships also allows us to invite people to worship service and church activities. Vacation Bible School is often held during the summer months. What a great way for kids to get involved. Volunteering at church and in the community can bring new friendships and maybe a chance to sit in lawn chairs and visit.

How does your neighborhood show God’s love?

“Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms.” (1 Peter 4:10 NIV)

In His Name,
Melissa Henderson